PARISIAN CHIC: WOMEN OF A CERTAIN AGE

It's no secret that French women are known for exuding an effortless form of chic that's always been fascinating to women in other countries, hello my fellow Americans.  They have that Je Nais Se Quois which, in French actually means "I don't know what".  In our English dictionary it means "an expression of a quality the makes something or someone attractive, distinctive or special in some way, but is hard to put into words."  Exactly.  

Mireille Guiliano, author of French Women Don't Get Fat, and her new book, French Women Don't Get Face Lifts, (hmmm), says it's because there's no age culture in France so women are more confident, they truly believe that age is just a number and therefore have more confidence in themselves as they age gracefully and naturally.  OK my American sisters we can do that!  I agree that when we believe that age is just a number we are naturally more confident.  

As far as why French women don't get fat, this still escapes me.  I know, they eat very small portions and the cheese and wine and bread is in between the fish and salad.  But realistically, when I was in Paris I ate my weight in baggeuets and if there's cheese in front of me I can tell you right now that 'just one bite' is never going to happen.  It's the whole wedge OK.  I'll walk 20 miles in Paris to walk it off but it's the whole loaf and the whole wedge.  And don't get me started on the macaroons and le pain au chocolat.

So let's look at 11 dynamic chic French women, ages 45-77.  I think the lesson from them is find your Joie De Vivre which means exuberant enjoyment of life.  Also, it doesn't hurt to have a good trench coat, a great pair of ballet flats and a beret.  And at home if you can manage a fire place with a great gold mirror over it, that wouldn't hurt either, just sayin'.
When asked by French ELLE what the best age is, 75 year old actress Eveline Hall said "I would say it's this very moment.  I would like to be an inspiration for young women, to prove there are no age limits.  My face reflects my life, my personality."
Marion Coltillard, 45.  Academy award winning actress, musician and the face of Lady Dior.
Caroline de Maigret, 45. Model and author.  In an interview with OnOther, she was asked why people are so fascinated by the mystique of the French woman. "I think there are some countries where people have a tendency to put big pressure on themselves to be perfect, for some reason, in France, we've lost, or we don't have that same quest for being perfect; it's not an achievement, your not chasing utopia. As for Aging, it's not that we're completely fine about it, it's just the pressure is less".
Carla Bruni 52.  Song writer, model and former French first Lady.  In Vanity Fair explaining why she's still in therapy ~ "With aging, if there is no philosophy, there's no serenity, there's no wisdom, there's nothing but falling apart.  Wrinkles without wisdom are boring.  I want to become mature, I want to become wise".

Emmanuelle Alt 53.  Current editor and Chief of Vogue Paris.
Isabelle Huppert 67.  Academy award nominate actress.  She says she doesn't want to age gracefully, she wants to age gloriously.
Juliette Binoche 56.  Academy award winning actress.
Ines de La Fressange, 63.  Model and the author of Parisian Chic City Guide.
Carine Roitfeld 66.  Formally Editor and Chief at Vogue Paris and now runs CR Fashion Book and is the Global Fashion Director at Harper's Bazaar.
Catherine Deneuve. 77, actress and Yves Saint Laurants original muse.
Garance Dore.  45, photographer, illustrator, blogger and author of the New York Times best seller Love Style Life.

Add a little French flare to your wardrobe with a few basic staples.
And bring a little French feel into you home, gold mirrors, candles, plants, books, chandeliers, fleurs.
Here's a few pictures through my lens of Paris in 2019.  You can see more and read my post Two American Girls In Paris here.
And here I am channeling my inner French girl.




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Wednesday Wants ~ Fab French Fashion for Fall.

Not that I'm rushing to stop coming up with cute summer outfits, I know I will be happily wearing sandals way into September, along with forbidden whites, long after Labor Day weekend. This is just a heads up on two upcoming fall collabs with two very French designers.

Whether you've been there or not, who can deny that Paris conjours up magical romantic thoughts and images.  Not to mention those macaroons! And let's face it we admire French women.  They are always chic and yet usually dressed in the simplest outfit. No denying that they have that certain je ne sais quai that American women covet. When we think of Paris we think chic. It's on my list of places to go in 2014. Have you been?

So, I'm very excited about these two upcoming designer collaborations. I'm not always a fan of the quality and look of how some designer collabs turn out but I have a feeling these two are going to be magnifique!  No peeks yet but look at some of the regular (high priced) pieces below from the collections of French designers Isabel Marant and Catherine Malandrino.

H & M will release French designer Isabel Marants line on November 14, 2013.  The epitome of modern French design Marant says about the collection ~ "I aim at creating something real, that women want to wear in their every day lives, with a certain carelessness, which I think is very Parisian: you dress up, but do not pay too much attention and still look sexy. The collection is infused with this kind of easiness and attitude. Everything can be mixed following one's own instincts: my take on fashion is all about personality."
Isabel Marant 
 The Fantasy Merino Wool Peplum Jacket $955

 

Finless Merino Wool-Felt Bustier Top $640

 

 Ziggy Wool Blend Brushed Twill Coat $1,575


Also this fall, (no debut date yet), French designer Catherine Malandrino will be the third designer in Kohl's DesigNation collaboration and will consist of an 80 piece collection with prices ranging from $36 - $130. As a French designer living in New York Malandrino combines "the romance and elegance of Paris with the energy of New York." She summarizes her design philosophy ~ " I want to bring softness and refinement to urban, feminine wardrobe and to help woman show her character and individuality through her unique clothes." Watch the video of her collection.






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So what is it about French style that makes us say "I wanna look like her"?

I've always been a lover of croissants, macaroons, brie cheese and cream puffs, but lately I've noticed not just my own fascination with everything Paris but others as well.  Paris seems to be the 'in' thing right now.  But haven't we as women always had a fascination for the romance of Paris and intrigued by what gives French women that 'Je ne sais quoi'?




For me it all started when Carrie Bradshaw roamed the streets of Paris aimlessly working her way through the chocolatier shops and sidewalk cafes while waiting for Alexander Petrovsky to finish playing with his light installation.  I fell in love with Paris. (And her sweater.)




From the huge popularity of the book Parisian Chic: A Style Guide by former French model Ines de la Fressange, to the new exhibit at the J. Paul Getty Museum in Los Angeles, (April 27 - August 7th)  Paris:  Life & Luxury.  Paris is in the air!


I just finished reading Entre Nous: A Woman's Guide To Finding Her Inner French Girl, by Debra Ollivier, the May selection in Kimberly Wilson's book club, another girl after your French heart, read about Kimberly's fabulous up-coming Paris Retreat. And stop over at Accidental Chic and get lost in Tiffany Rogers beautiful photos of her recent birthday trip to Paris.



Over the weekend we saw the new Woody Allen movie Midnight in Paris. It was a lovely movie but had it not been, who cares, I was in Paris for two hours!  And not just modern day Paris, the Paris of Hemingway, Monet and Toulouse Lautrec as well!  I was struck by the look of the Parisian tour guide in the movie. She was in two very brief scenes but her look was unmistakeably French chic.  Simple white blouse, tan slacks, leather flats and again the same paired with jeans, she just oozed that chic simplistic look that French women are famous for and that American women covet. 

Whether it's a simple black or white blouse, a stripe top or a lacy dress with pearls, the key is to keep it simple and have great accessories!  Don't forget your scarves and sunglasses!  Today at lunch I saw a striking women wearing black leggings, ballet flats, a black tunic and carrying a bright orange Hermes bag.  C'est très magnifique!
Paris


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My trip to Paris may not be scheduled just yet, so until then...